I am very proud to say I am literate in ballroom dancing;
though until recently, dancing wasn't something I boasted about to others. The reason
becomes obvious when looking at my motive for doing ballroom. When I entered
the URI Ballroom Dance Club my freshmen year, there wasn't much thought put
into the decision. As a requirement for all incoming classes, URI makes
students participate in at least one extracurricular activity. Since mock trial
and parliamentary debate were unavailable, I really didn’t have a strong desire
to be an active member of anything. I later asked my friends what they chose
(there answer being ballroom) and I thought, “sounds as good as anything else.
I am in.” So off I went for an hour long class Wednesday evening.
I admit, following the crowd was not a good reason to dance
and it highly impacted how skilled I became as a dancer. Since I was forced to join an activity, I did the bear minimum.
Whereas, the more passionate people attended the club from 5-9 PM,
during which time six dances and some technique was (and still is) covered. At
technique classes more one on one time was offered and the teacher really
discussed how to make the dance look good. Since, I opted
out of that last hour I didn’t know how to follow my partner's lead correctly, count music, stay
on beat, or how to position my body during the dance. I had a general
understanding that I should be on the right of the leader, but that was only
because my partner would push me over there every time.
The better dancers also made more of an effort outside of
the classes. Be it by themselves, with a friend, or at a social dance they put
in many practice hours on their own time. Then they would come back with
questions that they would converse to the teacher about thereby increasing
their “declarative and procedural knowledge” as Wilhelm would say (47). Without
much practice, all I could do was follow the steps, but typically only when my
teacher was saying what should be done next. I say typically, because I even
struggled to follow the sequence of moves since I didn't know all of the names
of the steps. The last day of class when there were numerous complex steps that
built of the basic, I did horribly. Since I had a thin grasp
of the dances foundation I couldn't keep up with what my teacher was saying
much to my partner’s displeasure.
Despite my low interest and lack of practice, I continued to
attend dance intermittently and performed in a subpar manner until my senior
year. That year many of the experienced dancers were no longer in the club and
the leadership changed. Now I know I am most at fault for not growing as a
dancer earlier, however, I didn't end up caring about the club to put any
effort into the skill until the change in members occurred. Under the old group
the club was unwelcoming to new comers. On my first day of class many of the
participates were frustrated that new comers didn’t already know how to dance.
Furthermore, the skilled members didn't make much of an effort to include
beginners in their conversations during class either. Really, it is a wonder I
even went back sometimes. Luckily I did, and the club changed around the time I
did too. Simply put the new president and younger dancers started to be more
sociable and were helpful to everyone. With more of a connection to the club, I
started staying later, practicing with others outside class, and attending
socials. One of our teachers, who owns a
professional dance studio, even offered us discounted class rates when it
became apparent the club, myself included, didn’t want to stop dancing during
the summer (See below link for studio information).
Aside from having an increased appreciation for a variety of
music generas and a wide knowledge of ballroom, I have gained some practical
skills that impact my life on a daily basis. For one, becoming involved in
dance has made me more personable. In any dance situation you have to be in
close proximity with your partner. Because I dance so often at socials and
other events, I meet many new dancers constantly. To minimize the incredibly
awkward feeling everyone has when being in close contact with a stranger, I
have learned the art of small talk quite well. Not everyone is receptive to
polite conversation nor are people more skilled than I nice about dancing with
a person below their capabilities. Before that bothered me, but now I
know to just brush it off and keep dancing. They are only a small thorn when it
comes to the overall picture, which is an attitude I keep in mind for anything
I try now. So I have also developed a pretty thick skin due to dance.
The importance of “humane”
practice for increasing engagement will also
translate into my teaching (Wilhelm, 21). When Wilhelm described how to teach
reading during chapter two his support for Vygotsky’s learning-centered
teaching showed he thinks a large part of the equation falls on the teacher’s
method (31-53). My ballroom teacher used this same method, but as my early
experience showed that wasn't enough. What I needed was to have someone create
a safe and welcoming environment for me, which could have simply been done by
being caring and patient. This clearly relates to the classroom. Wilhelm once
said in an aside such an environment can increase new interests (21). With
the experience of a poor atmosphere still fresh in my memory, I think
atmosphere is more than a footnote. That feeling still makes me go out of my way
to be nicer to the freshmen when I dance at URI. The current President does the same too, which is
great because membership retention has increased with the introduction of this
new club culture. So hopefully like dance retention, I can increase student
retention (i.e. interest) through the use of my “humane” ballroom practice.
Links
1. Studio Information: http://dancinfeelin.com/
2. Video of Most Recent URI Performance: https://www.facebook.com/video.php?v=920111361337853&set=o.2200019120&type=2&theater
*The people in the second video are the
people I currently practice with. There technique is a bit better than mine,
but I can typically keep up with them during lessons.
I admire your persistence! Even though the more experienced members were not as welcoming, I like how you stuck with it and liked it fundamentally. It seems this experience really helped you grow as a person because it allowed you to engage in activities that were outside your comfort zone and it also gave your perspective toward younger and newer members.
ReplyDeleteKendra, it great that you stuck to it and how it grew into something you really do enjoy. Many people start something just because they have to, but in my opinion its few who actully stay in it and learn it to afinally actually enjoy it. It could be a sport, a subject in school or even reading. Taking that first step is important, but the support afterward is just as important. Once you received that support your interest and engagement grew to what it is today. Glad for you that you stuck to it and now its something you can enjoy!
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